A good connection starts with a good conversation.

Voice evenings for singles in Utrecht. You talk to six people for six minutes each, without photos. You only see someone after you both say yes.

Private beta in Utrecht. Not in the app stores yet.

How an evening works

One evening, six short talks.

You join from home, with the app open and your headphones in. An evening takes about an hour.

  1. Book a seat

    Pick an evening in Utrecht, say Thursday at 20:30. Each group has a fixed number of seats, so the numbers stay even. If your group is full, you join the waitlist.

  2. Talk, voice only

    At the start time you meet six people, one after another, for six minutes each. No photos and no names. An icebreaker is on screen if you need one.

  3. Answer one question

    After each talk the app asks you, privately, whether you want to talk again. The other person never sees your answer.

  4. See who said yes too

    When the evening ends, everyone gets their results at the same time. For each mutual yes you see a first name and photos, and you can start a chat.

After every talk

  1. 1
  2. 2
  3. 3
  4. 4
  5. 5
  6. 6

Would you like to talk again?

Only you see your answer. A yes counts only if they said yes too. If they didn't, nobody ever finds out.

The reveal

Talk first. Photos after a mutual yes.

During a talk you see a timer and two soft lights: yours and theirs. No face, no name, no age. You find out how someone listens and what makes them laugh before you know what they look like.

Your photos stay hidden until you both say yes. Then you each see the other's first name, age and photos, and the chat opens. A person on our team checks every photo before a match can see it.

Meet in person

Your first meeting is hosted.

Ridele organises drinks, dinners and walks in public places in Utrecht. Anyone can book a ticket, and everyone with a match gets an invitation. You don't have to plan a first date alone with a stranger.

  • A Ridele host is there and checks everyone in at the door.
  • Always in a public place, with other people around.
  • Leave whenever you like. Nobody gets a guest list.
Hosted by RideleDrinks, dinners and Sunday walksIn public places in Utrecht

Safety

Women's comfort comes first.

If women don't feel at ease, an evening doesn't work for anyone. So when comfort and growth pull different ways, we choose comfort.

  • Leave, block or report

    You can do it during every talk and in every chat. Block and report are one tap each. A report ends the talk for both of you, and you never meet that person again.

  • No photos before a yes

    Nobody sees your photos, surname or profile until you both say yes. We never ask for or pass on phone numbers.

  • First meetings in public

    We point first meetings to hosted Ridele events, where a host knows who is there.

  • 18+ and people who check

    Everyone is 18 or older. People on our team review photos and look at every report within 24 hours.

Questions

Good to know

Who can join?

Single adults, 18 and over, in Utrecht. The first evenings are for women who want to meet men and men who want to meet women. Evenings for other groups will follow, and we'll say when.

What does it cost?

Everyone pays the same price for an evening, whoever they are. We never price by gender. We'll publish prices for evenings and meetups when booking opens.

Why voice only?

Because a photo tells you very little about whether you'll enjoy someone's company, and a six-minute talk tells you a lot. It also takes the pressure off: nobody is judged on a picture.

What if a talk feels wrong?

Tap Block or Report. The talk ends straight away for both of you. The other person sees the same message as when a call drops, and the two of you are never paired again.

Do you record calls?

No. Ridele doesn't record your talks.

Who sees who I want to meet?

Nobody. Ridele uses it only to put you in the right evenings. You give it with a separate consent, and you can withdraw that consent in the app.

How do matches get in touch?

Through a chat in the app. Ridele doesn't share phone numbers, and you never have to give yours.

Can I join now?

Ridele is in a private beta in Utrecht and isn't in the App Store or Google Play yet. Questions? Write to support@ridele.app.